A concept that stood out to me this semester was
when we learned about verbal and non-verbal communication. When I entered high
school a lot of people didn’t like me because they said I didn’t look
approachable. Non-verbal communication is the most important in my opinion
because the non-verbal communication you make is the reason why someone does or
doesn’t talk to you. If you want someone to approach you, you have to actually
look approachable. Verbal communication is what keeps people around and makes
relationships strong. People don’t realize how communication can make or break
a relationship. In my family our biggest issue is communication. Being in this
class has helped me improve my communication skills with my family. My communication
with my family is important because I have moved away from home, keeping our communication
strong is very important. Being in college and having roommates that I don’t
know can be very frustrating because we are all different. Communication has
made our apartment run smoother.
Delilah Stone
Sunday, December 9, 2012
Post 2
What I liked most about this class is that the website to
blog was very easy to access and easy to post. The questions were never
confusing and pretty self-explanatory. It was easy to communicate with other
students. What I didn't like is that we had to wait 12 hours to post and that
we had to comment on 3 peoples posts.it was hard to remember to post sometimes
because there was no actual class to be reminded of the work that was due. I think there should be a way to meet up in
person because sometimes it’s easier to talk about grades or problems in
person. Using two websites to keep track of the class also got confusing at
times. I would sometimes forget to go on D2L to take the tests or quizzes or to
see prompts for the essays. I wish this class wasn't online; learning about all
the different types of communication would have been really interesting to learn
from a professor.
Saturday, December 8, 2012
#1 dec 3-9
In
this course I have learned the different stages of friendship and that there is
more to communicating than just talking. Knowing the different stages of
friendship has helped me understand what my best friend and me are going
through. I compared our friendship to the stages and realized that we fit right
in on how we met and got close. It also never occurred to me that
there were different styles of loving. Its weird how we can love things
different, like the love you have for your phone is different than the love you
have for a boyfriend or girlfriend. Storge is the type of love I have with my
boyfriend right now, we started off as friends and I would have never though id
ever be with him and love him how I do. This class has helped me re-evaluate my
relationships and communication skills. Knowing the different stages of
relationships can help anyone with their relationships.
Sunday, November 18, 2012
post #3 nov12-18
In the chapter the most interesting concept to me
was the family life cycle. This cycle consists of seven stages. The seven
stages are establishing, enlarging, and developing a
family, as well as encouraging independence, launching children, post-launching of
children, and retirement. This is interesting to me because my parents are
going through these stages and I will soon be going through the same stages. Learning
about these stages are very interesting because everyone goes through them but
have their own ways of dealing with all the challenges that arise. I am learning
from my parents about how to successfully fulfill all of these stages properly.
My parents are launching kids right now, I am out of the house but there are
five other kids at home. I will soon have to go through all the stages of the
family life cycle. I have learned a lot from my parents and hope to have smooth
sailing through al the stages.
post #2 nov 12-18
In the next 50 years I believe that marriage isn’t
going to last as long. I feel like marriage isn’t as important as it used to
be, people aren’t going to be as committed. Being married won’t be as important
anymore, people wont want to be married. I believe that people wont want to go
through all the troubles of getting married and they will just want to stay as boyfriend
and girlfriend. There is a lot more responsibility on being married, it isn’t a
joke anymore. You have to stay committed to them and realize that you want to
be with them forever. People will start having kids without being married
and it will become a lot more normal. I honestly can’t even think about myself being,
arrived because I know it will be different than how my parents are. My parents
are married and so in love, I cant see people be that in love in 50 years.
Saturday, November 17, 2012
post #1, nov12-18
When I hear the word family the first thing I think
of is those people you can trust that will always be there for you. The meaning
of family is a group of people that you happened to be related to that you couldn’t
pick, but they will be the closest things to you. My immediate family is really
close and we love each other, there is a lot of criticism with my cousins, it
seems like they can’t keep their mouth shut. Both of my parents are very
supportive and don’t criticize my decisions. They do try and get me to set an
example because I am the oldest. Family members are always supposed to be there
even when no one else isn’t. I believe that you have to treat family better
than friends because they are the ones that are there until the end. My parents
partake in total marriage; they are both in love and spend as much time as they
can together.
Sunday, November 11, 2012
post #3 nov 5-11
This week I found the topic of navigation the most interesting.
Navigation is the process of staying committed and living life together. I
think this is important in my life because I am currently in a long distance
relationship. My boyfriend and I can stay committed but we really can’t be
together. We technically live a life together but not actually physically
together, we constantly talk and face time. We have our ups and downs and it is
a let harder to get through it because we are fighting over the phone. Relationships
are about the ups a downs, it not always perfect. Communication is really
important in long distance relationships because trust is a big issuer. The
process of navigation helps you realize that you have to be committed no matter
what and know that relationships aren’t perfect and you have to love the other
person if you want to keep going
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